Will This Dating Advice Actually Work? 3 Questions To Ask If You Want Love
Sep 07, 2026There is an INSANE amount of dating advice out there.
Which app to use, how long to wait to reply to a message, what to wear on first dates, where to go to meet men, what to say, when to kiss, who pays on dates, how to be in your feminine energy, be less available so you're more attractive to men...
I’m taking a pretty educated guess that you’ve tried more of this than you’d like to admit.
And it hasn’t exactly led you to love, right?!
And the more of this dating advice you follow that doesn’t work, the more cynical you become.
You hear something new and immediately think, “what’s the point, I doubt that will work.”
Then you do it anyway. It doesn’t work.
And now you've just wasted more time and feel even worse about your chances of ever finding love.
This is why dating becomes the exhausting and soul-destroying experience it is for so many single women dating in their 30s and 40s.
Nothing EVER helps you find love.
So what are you supposed to do?
Because there’s always another piece of advice telling you THIS is what you need to change. THIS is what will finally make the difference.
And when you want love this much, of course part of you thinks... maybe I should try it?
The problem is you have no way of knowing whether that advice will actually get you any closer to love.
Or whether you’re about to waste another 6 months of your life going down another rabbit hole that only leads to more disappointment and heartbreak.
You need a way to know BEFORE you do it.
Because some dating advice might actually help you find love.
And some of it you can follow to the letter, do everything you’ve been told to do and STILL end up with the man you have a 3 day messaging conversation with and never hear from again.
You’re not here for that. You’re here for love.
And sooner rather than later, right?!?!
There are 3 questions you can ask whenever you come across a new piece of dating advice that will tell you whether it’s actually worth your time.
And you’ll probably realise pretty damn quickly why so much of the advice you’ve followed until now hasn’t worked.
I take you through all 3 questions inside this podcast episode so you finally know what dating advice to listen to and what you can completely ignore: