Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern)

Maybe you feel invisible to men.

You’re not rejected or ghosted.

You’re not meeting the wrong men.

You’re not meeting any men.

0 prospects at all. 

And it’s not like you haven’t tried the apps.

Matches are few and far between, conversations don’t lead to dates and maybe it feels like your life, where you work, how you spend your time, means you don’t meet men.

So it’s been months, years since you’ve been on a date.

There’s just nothing happening.

And while you might be thinking right now...

Is there something wrong with me?

Did I miss my chance?

Is this just my life now?

You probably feel like there’s not much you can do.

Because you know yourself, you’re a kind, generous, smart woman with a ton of love to give.

You know you’d make someone an incredible partner.

So from that perspective, it just feels so unfair that this is where you’re at right now.

Nothing is happening or changing, nothing is progressing.

Life is just doing its thing. It’s generally the same thing every week, every month, likely every year.

You’re in what I call the waiting room for love.

Sitting there, just waiting for love to somehow happen.

You might be getting on the apps from time to time or looking out for single men when you’re out and about.

But if you’re really honest, you’re doing it pretty half-heartedly.

Like you’re going through the motions but you don’t actually expect to meet anyone.

And while you might feel invisible to men now, in that waiting room for love...

This isn't where you need to stay. 

It’s just a pattern that's been playing out until now, that no one’s yet showed you how to break.

And so you know, dating advice won’t do shit here. Like the answer isn’t to put yourself out there more.

We have to get below that, to how love really happens, so the right men can finally see you!

This episode explains exactly what this means you do: