Why You Attract The Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern)

This is top tier annoying.

You’re minding your own business, doing life.

Everything is happy, peaceful, easy, things are good.

Then some man comes along with all the banter and flirting, leaving you smiling like a school girl. 

And all of a sudden, you’re kinda hooked, you’re excited, you can feel something happening here.

And then... 

The messages get shorter, colder, they stop coming as often.

Weekends go by and there’s nothing from him.

But you’re checking your phone more and more and... there's less and less from him. Until there's nothing at all.

Or he tells you he’s not looking for anything serious, for a relationship.

And you’re left thinking...

WTF, now I have to get over something I didn’t actually want in the first place.

It’s f’ing shit, no 2 ways about it.

Especially when this seems to be what happens to you time after time after time.

You just keep meeting men who pursue you, get you all excited about what this could be, only for them to pull away the second you're actually interested.

And you’re left dealing with all the hurt, disappointment and frustration while he gets to disappear back into his life.

It's pretty damn easy to have this pull you down into thinking all men suck, dating is awful and love just isn't meant for you.

OR...

You can have this be THE thing that gets you into gear to attract WAY better than this BS.

Because if you continue to have these same experiences, attracting the same frustrating AF men who just aren’t it, there’s something happening beneath the surface that you haven’t seen yet.

There’s a reason this pattern keeps playing out.

And once you see what's actually happening, you can finally change it.

So instead of the men who come on strong, get you interested and then disappear...

You can attract the consistent, kind, genuine men who want what you do and wouldn’t DREAM of losing you.

If you do want to break this pattern, this episode explains exactly how: