Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern)
Sep 08, 2026So you DO attract men... just not the men you actually want.
They’re not particularly exciting, kinda little boring, there’s no spark or chemistry or anything much happening.
You have to force yourself to date them.
And then the men you ARE attracted to, interested in...
They couldn’t care less about you.
There’s a big old mismatch, which is pretty infuriating, isn’t it?!?!
Because you don’t want to settle.
You don’t want to be with someone you have to force yourself to date.
And you can’t do much if the men you want just aren’t interested in you…
So right now, you probably just feel blocked, like there’s a big old brick wall in front of you.
And no matter what you do, it’s the same experience over and over and over.
Until now, obv!!!
Because underneath all of this is probably the BIGGEST lesson in love for single women dating in their 30s, 40s and 50s.
It's a conversation you probably don’t want to have, but NEEEEEED to hear if you want to change this so that you can finally find love...
So go and have a listen to this: