Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You’ve Done Everything “Right”)

 Don't we all grow up just thinking love will "just happen" when it's meant to?!

And then for some of us... it just doesn't. 

Instead what we get are the same emotionally unavailable men over and over again.

The same situationships.

The same men who don’t want anything "serious".

The same long months not meeting anyone at all.

And you do what you’re told to do.

You use the apps. Put yourself out there more. Work on yourself. Heal your anxious attachment. Try not looking. Try harder. Try caring less.

And love STILLLL hasn’t happened.

It’s a shit scary place to be.

Because you’re not just exhausted by dating anymore. You’re scared you’ll never find love, and you genuinely don’t know what you’re supposed to do from here.

But that exhaustion, frustration and soul-destroyed feeling isn’t something you’re meant to keep battling through.

It’s a BIG OLD sign you’ve reached the edge of what dating can do for you.

Because if you’ve been dating for years and it hasn’t worked, doing more of the same isn’t going to suddenly change everything.

That does NOT mean you give up on love.

There’s another option.

One that typical dating advice skips entirely.

 And one that finally explains why some women seem to find love so easily while you can want it more than anything, try so damn hard and still stay single.

I explain everything you need to know if dating hasn't worked for you, but you still want love, in this 👇 episode: