Why Finding Love Doesn’t Have To Be Complicated

Hasn't dating and finding love become this whole bloody complicated thing?!?!?

The apps. The messages. Who you should date. Red flags to look out for. How you should act. Whether you’re being too much or not enough. Trying to stay hopeful when underneath it all you’re worried, frustrated, disappointed and bloody exhausted.

And after years of dating, even just getting on an ok date can feel like an impossible task. 

More swiping on dating apps you hate. Another boring getting-to-know-you conversation. Another date you have to convince yourself to get excited about.

It gets harder and harder to keep going.

STOP. 

And just think about LOVE for a second.

Love feels light, easy, simple, warming, safe, comforting.

So why has trying to find it become the complete opposite?

That matters.

Because you can want love more than anything and try everything you can to find it, but if the whole experience has become filled with fear, panic, frustration, disappointment and pressure, you’re working against the way love actually happens.

And THIS is where finding love gets so much simpler.

Not because you need another dating strategy.

Because there’s one rule love follows.

And it's only when you start actually following it, dating, and actually finding love can finally get a whole lot easier. 

Want to know what this means you do??

I explain it all in this 👇 episode: