"Where Are All the Decent, Available Men?"
Sep 04, 2026So where ARE all the kind, genuine, loyal, consistent, loving, available men?!?!
Because if dating has turned you into someone who scans every room you walk into, endlessly swipes on the apps or has started wondering whether there’s genuinely some kind of man drought happening after 30…
You’re not alone.
You’ve been LOOKING.
For years.
You’ve done your time on the apps. Gone to singles events. Asked friends to set you up. Kept an eye out at the grocery store, gym, work, on nights out with friends.
And after all that, it feels pretty bloody reasonable to conclude there just aren’t any decent men left.
The genuine, kind, commitment-ready ones have all been snapped up.
So only the awful men you don’t want are left.
But is that REALLLLLY true?
Because the men you’re meeting right now aren’t random.
And the fact that you keep seeing emotionally unavailable men, men who don’t want relationships or absolutely NO ONE you want to date doesn’t mean that’s all there is.
In fact, the kind of men you want might have been within reach this whole time.
Men who are smart and funny, plan dates, are consistent, follow up and actually WANT the same kind of relationship you do.
And there’s a really simple reason you haven’t been able to see them yet.
It has nothing to do with your age, where you live, where you work or which dating app you’re using.
I explain exactly why if feels like there aren't any decent, available men left on this episode of Find Love With Emily 👇
And why finding them gets a helluva lot easier when you stop trying so damn hard to FIND them: