Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 2

Sep 07, 2026

You want to find love, right?

You probably wanted to find love 7 years ago.

And you’ve been doing everything you’ve been told you need to do to make that happen.

You’ve tried the dating apps, putting yourself "out there", dating outside your regular type, trying to be less anxiously attached, more in your feminine energy, playing hard to get...

Years later and after trying all of this, you’re stilllll single.

And it just continues, doesn't it? 

You're always asking the question, "what else do I need to do, or can I do to find love?" 

Like there's gotta be some other dating strategy, something you're getting wrong, something you haven't figured out yet about what men want. 

Because surely if you were doing the right things, you’d have your man by now.

THIS is where single women over 30, get finding love soooooo damn wrong. 

You keep trying to find love, with more of the same dating advice. 

I mean, if it was going to work, wouldn't it by now?!?!

You wouldn't be here feeling frustrated AF, exhausted by dating and wondering why you can do everything right and STILL NOT FIND LOVE.

What if I told you there's a simple reason none of this dating advice has ever worked for you?

That there's something happening under the surface that means no matter what you do or how hard you try, love doesn't get any easier to find?!

Because there is. 

When you see it and how it's been playing out for you all these years, it'll make perfect sense why dating's been so hard for you for so long. 

Finally. 

It also means that what you do from here to find love becomes clear... which you'll be happy to know, has nothing to do with swiping on apps, playing hard to get, or simply hoping your luck changes. 

I explain it all inside this podcast episode. And there's also a self-assessment exercise for you to complete so you see in black and white, finally, what love's been so hard for you to find. 

 

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