Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 1
Sep 07, 2026If you've been single and dating for years and you still haven't found love, you've probably been asking the same questions over and over and over...
Why am I still single?
Why is dating so god damn hard?
Why is it so hard to find a decent man, love?
Why is it always the same situationships, endless talking stages, so hard to get on an actual date?
And maybe you’ve been down every single rabbit hole there is, like I did.
Is it the way I look?
Is it that I’m too in my "masculine energy", I’m too needy?
Do I suck at dating and playing "the game" and hard to get??
I read all the books, did all the courses on how to be more in my "feminine energy" and less anxiously attached. I used cringey texting scripts to keep him interested, wore red dresses and first dates and perfume that he'd remember me by...
And it was stilllll the exact same situationships, men that said I was great but didn’t want "anything serious, MONTHS not attracting anyone at all.
Turns out NONE of what I thought was the problem was actually the problem.
And there’s a really good chance you’ve been thinking about this backwards too, most single women over 30 do.
You think: I feel hopeless, sad, anxious and scared because dating doesn't work and it feels so hard to find love.
And so you go to town doing all the dating things, in the hope that doing those things will eventually mean you attract the right man, find love and finally feel how you want to... relieved, loved, happy and safe.
But love doesn't work like that.
How you feel actually comes FIRST.
If you feel exhausted, frustrated and over dating, or hopeless, stressed and scared that you'll never find love, you HAVE to listen to this episode.
Because I walk you through a self-assessment that will show you, plain as day, exactly how the way you feel right now about dating and finding love, is blocking you from the very thing you want.
...and obvs what has to happen from here so love can finally happen for you too!
Hit play and listen now:
