“Maybe Love’s Just Not Meant for Me?”

If you’ve ever had the thought that maybe love’s just not meant for you, I want to make something REALLY clear.

If you want love, it’s meant for you.

Full stop. End of story.

Because I know how you get to the point where you stop believing that.

You’ve done years of putting yourself out there, swiping on apps you hate, having a million getting-to-know-you conversations with men you never speak to again, hoping breadcrumbs turn into more.

Eventually dating becomes so painful and exhausting that giving up on love can actually feel like relief.

You can stop trying.

Stop pouring all your time and energy into something that isn’t working. Tell yourself if it’s meant to be, it’ll be, and leave it up to God, perfect timing or life to work out.

But the pain you feel around dating and finding love has NEVER been telling you that love isn’t meant for you.

It’s been trying to get you to pay attention and do something differently.

Think about what happens when you put your hand on a hot stove.

The pain is telling you to MOVE. Do something that you're not doing now.

The exhaustion, frustration, pressure, despair and hopelessness you feel around finding love is doing the same thing.

It’s NOT telling you to give up on love.

And I know how bloody annoying it is to hear “do something differently” when you feel like you’ve already done EVERYTHING known to man to find it.

That’s exactly why this episode matters.

Because there IS another option between continuing to date in a way that’s destroying your soul and accepting that maybe love will never happen for you.

You’re just not going to find it on the path you expected.

You get to walk a WAY better one.

I explain it all in this episode: